Dating is not easy, we all do mistakes that we must learn from, and we all have flaws. When we go into dating, it's important to know who we are, what we are and what we can provide. After that we need to learn what the most valuable thing we can get from another person is.
Femininity is Virtue
You are not Dominant
There is an old saying that "Male is the dominant sex." The reason male is the dominant sex is because of physical strength and ability to use force.
Submissive does not mean "slave"
As women you often fantasize about being proposed to by a man on his knees. By that definition you want a man to submit to you, as kneeling is the ultimate from of submission.
You do not even want to be dominant, you are manipulated to believe. As male is the dominant sex, all women biologically are submissive. It follows your psychology and sexuality. Literally everything that's natural about women, is submissive.
Date only men you are attracted to
Do not even bother with men you do not think is attractive. As men we use about 80% of our brain capacity trying to get laid.
Get off Birth Control
This changes you hormonaly and is proven to mess with what men you are attracted to. It's also the cause of depression and anxiety amongst women.
Date with purpose
It's important to date with purpose. If that purpose is marriage, you have to do proper vetting for marriage. Not all the fooling around, "having fun" bullshit.